Begin with a simple greeting. When you see your crush, expand a friendly greeting. Smile and make eye contact with the crush. Once you’ve locked eyes, exchange “Hellos” with the crush. Don’t try to push the conversation. If your crush says “hi” and keeps walking, don’t chase after them. Your crush might not be interested in talking to you or they might be heading somewhere in a hurry.
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Ask your crush an open-ended question.
After saying “hi,” strike up a conversation by asking your crush anything. You may select to pose generic stock stuff, ask them school-related things, or tailor the matters to your crush’s activities and interests.
· Stock questions include: “How are you doing?” “What are you doing after a break?” “Were you at the game last evening?” “Do you work at _____?”
· School-related questions include: “Did we have homework in Spanish class?” “Do you need to study for the test together?” “What did you think about the faculty?” “Do you need help with the science homework?”
· Personalized questions include: “How did you play in the game last evening? Have you ever seen (insert concert name) perform live? What are you doing this month? Are you going to the morning brunch? How were your holidays?
Listen to their response.
After asking the question, remain concentrated on your crush. Active way listen to their reply so that you can extend the conversation with other questions or personal tales. As you listen, make a concentrated effort to appear genuinely interested in what your crush has to say—when you remain engaged in a conversation, people are keen to keep talking. Set aside all potential distractions, like your computer and phone. Make relevant personal tales to share and mental notes of potential follow-up questions.
Ask a follow-up question or share a relevant anecdote.
After your crush has responded to your initial question, both you and your crush have the potential to carry on the conversation. If your crush asks you some questions, take a moment to reply to their question and then pose another stuff of your own. If your crush does not ask you anything, you have three options: share a relevant personal story, ask a follow-up question, or end the conversation. Continue telling jokes, asking each other questions, and exchanging tales until one or both of you decide to end the conversation.
Present the best version of yourself.
During a conversation, the details you share about yourself are just as revealing as the questions you ask anyone. When talking about yourself, keep the conversation optimistic—negativity and bragging are unflattering qualities. You must strive to keep the conversation balanced—give your crush a chance to say something. Ask thoughtful questions demonstrates that you are genuinely interested, caring, and considerate of your crush.
Communicate with your crush with body language.
Body language is an extremely powerful and effective form of communication. You can apply these non-verbal gestures to express your emotions and flirt with your crush.
· Maintain eye contact with your crush. Your eyes can convey a variety of emotions, from love and care to attraction and interest.
· Mirror their facial reactions and body language.
· Nod occasionally to let your crush understand you are listening. · Remain aware of your facial expressions and gestures. If your facial expression and gestures don’t match the sentiment of your sentences, you run the risk of offering mixed messages to your crush.
Text your crush.
If you are pretty shy, you probably feel more comfortable texting your crush instead of talking to them in person. While this form of communication is easy and less stressful, it is accompanied by its social nuisances and own set of rules.
· get their number from a mutual acquaintance and Exchange numbers with your crush.
· Text your crush the similar day or night you receive their number.
· Don’t text your crush at odd hours, like early in the sunshine or late at night.
· Instead of texting just “Hello,” start the conversation by asking your crush a question, telling them it was pretty nice to see them, or asking them to make plans.
· Don’t declutter about your crush’s response time.
· If your crush doesn’t respond after the second or third text, do not try again. Your crush’s number is privileged information. Don’t abuse that privilege. · Apply traditional grammar and spelling in the text messages.
Flirt with your crush on Twitter.
. It is possible to flirt with your crush on every social media platform, even FB. This form of flirting is extremely less stressful and needs next to NO traditional forms of communication. Every few days, double-click on one of their Photos to “like” the picture. After a few months, your crush will observe that you’re consistently likely their photos and hopefully take the hint.
· Don’t like each post.
· If you are feeling bold, comment on their photo.
Flirt with your crush on FB.
While you can use Facebook to post insightful and witty zingers comments about present events, you can also utilize this social media platform to flirt with your crush. There are certain ways to catch your crush’s attention on social media:
· Retweet their latest Tweet. Your crush will be flattered that you loved their clever comment or at very least be reminded that you really exist.
· Follow them on FB. Everyone gets a baby twinge of excitement when a new figure follows them on FB—your crush won’t be any different.
· Send a message to your crush. You can use the Facebook Direct Message feature to talk to and flirt with your crush one-on-one. · Instead of retweeting every one of your crush’s Tweets, be selective. Select one or two Tweets to respond to or retweet each month.
Learn to love yourself.
The key to flirting and conversing with your crush is confidence. Your crush can’t see how incredible you are unless you truly faith that you are awesome. You don’t want to strive to be perfect, the most beautiful, the smartest, the coolest, or the chilled-out person in the room—just be the best version of yourself.
Start accepting the compliments.
It is tough to accept compliments when you lack confidence. You may struggle to accept that someone thinks you’re talented or attractive. Instead of thanking them, you might say, “I’m not really ____” or “Thanks, but I’m not that_____.” Give your self-confidence a boost by welcoming these positive comments.
· When you begin receiving compliments from others, you will begin believing that their comments are true.
· Instead of saying “Thanks, but ____,” simply say “Thanks” and smile. As you progress more confident and comfortable, you can expand your reply.
Create a list of conversation starters.
It is way easy to make the excuse, “I have nothing to say,” than it is to actually talk to a crush. This excuse, however, is not okay. You don’t want to have an arsenal full of insightful comments, funny anecdotes, bizarre facts, and probing questions to talk to someone. Instead, you just want to be genuinely interested in what your crush is supposed to say and have certain stock questions in your quiver to jumpstart the conversation. These questions may include:
· “What have you been up to?”
· “Have you seen the Series of _____?”
· “What did you think of the topic?”
· “Do you identify when the Spanish assignment is due?”
· “Are you going to the game day after tomorrow?”
Don’t wait for your crush to make the move.
Our fear of rejection is often debilitating and crippling. This fear often prevents us to take risks, like talking to our crush. Instead of permitting the fear of the unknown to control your love life, step out of the comfort zone and talk to your love crush.
· Don’t assume that if your crush wanted to talk to you, they probably start a conversation with you. Your crush may be feeling as shy, insecure, and unsure as you. · Instead of waiting for your crush to make the initial move, take charge and talk to your crush with more confidence.
Stay cool, calm, and collected throughout the conversation.
When you talk to your crush, you need to present an awesome version of yourself. Speak with confidence, keep your feelings in check, and act appropriately. Talking to a crush is quite nerve-wracking—the possibility of being rejected is pretty real. Instead of allowing this fear to cover you, set aside your doubts and insecurities. Take a risk and collect up the self-confidence to engage your crush in conversation.
· Eliminate gossiping about others
· Try to control your nervous ticks.
· Don’t act forceful—if your crush isn’t interested in you, move on
· Ignore making offensive comments
· Do not say lies about yourself.
